Sunday, July 22, 2012

Life Goes On In The Meanwhile


Among all the stress and hardship of Micah developing Type 1 Diabetes and coming home from the hospital to figure things out, life did go on.  

You wouldn't be able to tell from our happy joyful pictures that anything was wrong at all.


Micah was very thin---he was only around 60 pounds, but he hid it well behind his Easter suit coat.

We worried about Easter and how events would go especially now that we had a diabetic in the family.  We had to keep remembering that Type 1 Diabetes did not mean you couldn't have sugar.  You just had to cover it with insulin.  But with all the candy and treats.....we worried we wouldn't know how much to give him.  The Easter Bunny was very nice though and cut out all the carb information of all the candy and put it in Micah's basket.  How thoughtful.

We did our traditional coloring of eggs/giant strawberry shortcake party the night before Easter.



Every year we dye eggs, and then when we're done we have hand crafted strawberry shortcakes.

Of course mine was as tall and as beautifully delicious as ever:


I don't know how this tradition came to be.  I guess it just seemed to be right around Easter time every year that strawberries are on sale and those little shortcakes as well.  


The kids just love it.  We do ice cream, whipped cream, and chocolate sauce as well.



Micah doesn't like strawberries, so he just does a chocolate sauce-ice cream-whipped cream shortcake. 
I don't think I've ever been fast enough to get a picture of his creation.  He always swallows his just about whole.  I checked last years pictures as well----he was licking the plate then I think.



The kids always have fun decorating their eggs.  


This year we did alien/spaceship eggs.


They even glowed in the dark if we turned the lights off.





Caleb even managed to not break any of his this year.


Yep, life had a little hiccup, and although some things would never be the same, we could still go back to normal life once again.  

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Micah the Brave


It's been a long while since I have posted to this blog.  March 5th was our wedding anniversary, but shortly afterward, March 13th to be exact, we were faced with a very difficult new challenge in our lives.  Micah was diagnosed with Type 1 Juvenile Diabetes.

Micah had shown some different signs and symptoms of Diabetes for several months, but we hadn't picked up on them.  He was drinking a lot at night, but then going the bathroom a lot at night (of course who wouldn't if they were drinking so much at night I thought).  His hands had become so extremely dry that we thought they were chemically burned by the school health class that had done some germ experiment.  He had gotten extremely skinny, but I thought maybe he was just going through a growth spurt.  I kept trying to shove more food in him all the time.  He was often not feeling well right after school or after dance class, but then I'd give him something to eat and he'd be fine a half hour later.  

All these symptoms I missed.  

Honestly I did google the bathroom trips and dry hands a couple of times and all I got was bladder and urinary tract infections.  I thought to start him on a cranberry juice regimen and see how that went as his well child check up was only a week away.

But then he got sick.  I thought he just had strep.  He had a really high fever and his throat hurt.  Had to be strep.  So I took him to the doctor and had them do a strep test.  But, while he was there I mentioned the bathroom thing and showed them his hands.  A few tests later the pediatrician was all of the sudden telling me about "ketones" and sugar in his urine and how we needed to go right to the hospital emergency room and how he suspected Juvenile Diabetes in which I knew nothing about.  

There they did blood tests and confirmed that he had this thing called Juvenile Diabetes or Type 1 Diabetes and that he would have to be admitted to the hospital for 3 days!  

Was it somehow my fault for not catching him eat that whole bowl of tootsie rolls we had brought home from a birthday party?  How could this have happened, and what did it all mean?

They admitted our cute Micah boy to the hospital and made him wear a mask or the people who came in all had masks because they didn't know for sure that he didn't have strep or flu (although the pediatrician had already done the test and it was negative, I guess they were waiting for a more extensive test).  


This was a hard trip to go through.  While many of our friends and family didn't understand and thought that this was no big deal, this was a big deal.  This wasn't something that was going to go away or that could be cured by pills.  This was the insulin dependent diabetes and Micah was going to have to have insulin injections 4 times a day and monitor his blood sugar for the rest of his life.  At the hospital we could see how much weight he had actually lost.  While he always hid it wearing this big winter coat all day, Micah only weighed around 60 pounds as a 12 year old boy.  

The hospital stay was rough.  There was so much to learn and so much to remember.  Micah was so brave though.  I don't know anyone else who could have handled this better than he.  Here he was having to learn how to poke himself and bleed several times a day, but also how to inject himself with needles each day before he ate.  So much for a 12 year old to handle, but Micah truly has been so inspiring.  

We basically lived at the hospital for 3 days.  Macey came and visited most of the daytime,  


and Daddy and Caleb and Jewelia came in the afternoons.  


Troy would sleep over at nights while I managed the kids at home for bed and got the older ones off to school in the morning, then I would head back up to the hospital with Macey until the evening when we would swap again.  

I've been waiting to post this blog for some time now, because I've been working on another blog that shares our experiences with Juvenile Diabetes.  When Micah was first diagnosed we were at such a loss of information and so many others didn't understand as well.  I felt like it would help us share our experiences if not also help others and educate some about Type 1 Diabetes if we started a separate blog.  Well, you know me, the Blog Queen.  We have an Asperger Blog, a Tourette's Blog, and now a Diabetes Blog.  If you would like to know more details about what Micah has to go through or would like to be better educated, you can check it out at www.ourlifewithdiabetes.blogspot.com.

I can't tell you how proud we our of our Micah and we know although there is not a cure right now for T1 Diabetes, we will help him every step of the way and we know he can still live a happy life as we figure out how to manage his diabetes.  

Update!!!  We have all decided to join the Walk to Cure Diabetes this summer!  If you would like to donate to our cause, please click on the link here.

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Happy Anniversary 13 Years!


Somewhere a bit ago, we celebrated our 13 year anniversary.  
Is that the unlucky year? 
13?

Of course I don't think we went anywhere or did anything.  Really, if I remember we went to Walmart to go shopping.  Pretty exciting.  Yep. (I remember last year we went to Best Buy.  Oooh, exciting.)  

Well, Troy took the afternoon off of work and we walked up to the school to get the kids.  


Of course I got us all dressed up fancy the day before for church so I could take some nice pictures.


I always find it hilarious the shots I get when I thought I was setting the timer and yet it went off.  
Then  you get the true expressions of people's faces before they are forced to say cheese 5 million times.  
I love this of Troy!


I got some stylin' ones too:


 Can I tell you I love the D.I.?

OK, so, yes, we may be all trashy because I like to find great deals at the D.I. of nice clothes we can wear without spending a fortune, but so what!?  

Sure, I could go spend hundreds of dollars on a new dress or goodness, we'd have to save up for a while to get Troy a suit, but then there we are at the D.I. and there are all sorts of hardly used fancy clothes.  

I imagine that people didn't like to wear their suit or they got too fat.  

Anyway, we found suit coats for all the boys including Troy and a fancy dress for me, and probably all for under $25.  Yep.  Love it.  




So, of course I love to torture my family by taking lots of pictures when we actually look good.  

(You know, usually we look pretty lousy!)





So, 13 years.  Goodness.  That's a long time, although at the same time it doesn't seem so long.  
We're still together and happy.  Here's to the next 13 years!


Maybe by then we'll do something more than go to Walmart.